Archive for August 18, 2011

eat my tongue

Posted: August 18, 2011 in Uncategorized

When I was a kid, every little thing taught to me could only be categorized into two things, right and wrong. What to say and what not to say, what to do and what not to do, what to wear and what not to wear. I could go on enumerating all the things i’ve and i’ve not learned, but it won’t change the fact that it doesn’t stop with the yes and no, the right and wrong, the left and right.

As I was growing, I became conscious of the so-called world. I became eager to learn. I asked a lot, rather, tons of questions. I argued with every person i spoke with. I was groping for terms, for words. I was so thirsty to learn. What’s this and what’s that. The whys, hows, and whos. I made a decision to never stop looking for answers. Cause those answers will represent my principles. Principles which will show my mold.

Up to now, I’m still learning. I still ask questions. I still talk to people. young and old, people i’ve known all my life, people I just met. I’m a believer of puzzles. Every person I get to speak with holds each piece of the puzzle that I’ve been trying to resolve. The puzzle of my principles in life.

For now, I don’t have a concrete list to share but I want to spread the writings of one of the people that I look up to, Paolo Coelho. This man has taught me a lot. All his books that I’ve read made me realize a thing or two.

Declaration of Principles by Paulo Coelho

 1] All men are different. And should do everything possible to continue to be so.

 2] Each human being has been granted two courses of action: that of deed and that of contemplation. Both lead to the same place.

 3] Each human being has been granted two qualities: power and gift. Power drives man to meet his destiny, his gift obliges him to share with others that which is good in him. A man must know when to use his power, and when to use his gift.

4] Each human being has been granted a virtue: the capacity to choose. For he who does not use this virtue, it becomes a curse – and others will always choose for him.

 5] Each human being has the right to two blessings, which are: the blessing to do right, and the blessing to err. In the latter case, there is always a path of learning leading to the right way.

6] Each human being has his own sexual profile, and should exercise it without guilt – provided he does not oblige others to exercise it with him.

 7] Each human being has his own Personal Legend to be fulfilled, and this is the reason he is in the world. The Personal Legend is manifest in his enthusiasm for what he does.

Single paragraph – the Personal Legend may be abandoned for a certain time, provided one does not forget it and returns as soon as possible.

 8] Each man has a feminine side, and each woman has a masculine side. It is necessary to use discipline with intuition, and to use intuition objectively.

 9] Each human being must know two languages: the language of society and the language of the omens. The first serves for communication with others. The second serves to interpret messages from God.

10] Each human being has the right to seek out joy, joy being understood as something which makes one content – not necessarily that which makes others content.

 11] Each human being must keep alight within him the sacred flame of madness. And must behave like a normal person.

 12] The only faults considered grave are the following: not respecting the rights of one’s neighbor, letting oneself be paralyzed by fear, feeling guilty, thinking one does not deserve the good and bad which occurs in life, and being a coward.

Paragraph 1 – we shall love our adversaries, but not make alliances with them. They are placed in our way to test our sword, and deserve the respect of our fight.

Paragraph 2 – we shall choose our adversaries, not the other way around.

13] We hereby declare the end to the wall dividing the sacred from the profane: from now on, all is sacred.

14] Everything which is done in the present, affects the future by consequence, and the past by redemption.

 15] Dispensations to the contrary are herewith revoked.